Thursday night I really wanted "to get silly" with Mr. Right. I happily went through the ordeal of shaving my legs, wearing something that he bought for me (that I don't really like but he really does) and I put on some fabulously scented body cream called Seduction.
I was turned down flat from that man. He was just too tired to do "get silly."
Bummer. Big fat bummer. That is one strange man is all I can say. He wasn't too tired to play a game for an hour and a half. Hmph. I would have been so much more exciting than Zelda. I know that for a fact.
Friday morning, things were off between Mr. Right and me. I wasn't mad at him, but I didn't really want to talk with him either. I fought it well, but I know he felt it too. I did give him a good kiss when I left, though. There is that.On the way to work, I realized that I forgot to blog that morning. I knew that I wouldn't be able to do anything about it because of the filter at work. (STUPID WORK FILTER!)
I discovered when I arrived at work that I didn't have my office keys. (Yes, I thought of you, LW.) I knew that someone would be along soon, so I wasn't too worried about it. Half an hour later, my boss finally showed, and thanks be to God, he had his keys with him. (He doesn't always.)
I found that I had several tasks to accomplish that involved getting other people to put in some effort for me. Do you know what it takes to get five other people to cooperate so that you can get something done? Let me just say that sometimes it's not pretty when I have to get all parental.
I found out that all I managed to bring for lunch was my mashed potatoes... sans butter even. Well, at least I had something.
And no matter what I did, I could not get warm at work. Cold feet all day is not a pleasant experience. I even had my illegal space heater going and I was like an iceberg that would not thaw!
I was really ready for a do-over day. I wanted to just go home, curl up in bed and start again on Saturday. But then I read this post that Mary wrote at Owlhaven. What an eye-opener for me. I decided immediately that I would make some changes so that I too could be 15 minutes better.
I stopped by Panera's to bring home some sourdough bread with our homemade vegetable beef soup that was simmering at home. It's a luxury that we don't always get to indulge. It made the meal seem more complete, more special.
Since The Girl was set to go to an all-girl's lock-in at a friend's church and Mr. Right was working late that night, I decided to have a date with The Boy. We had such a good time. We went and bought a special candy for us to enjoy during a movie. Then I pulled out the new Charlotte's Web that I had checked out from the library, we set up the teepee that Aunt Lynnette had given to the kids for Christmas one year and we laughed (okay, I cried - I'm such a a softy!) our way through the movie. I have to tell you, The Boy sure makes a great date, especially when he's all happy from a Fun Dip! Some girl is going to have it easy with him later if he stays on the same course. Just give The Boy some candy and he's like putty in your hands.
Mr. Right arrived home just in time to tuck The Boy into the teepee so that he could continue his night of fun.
After the big tuck-in, I had another date with Mr. Right and finally was able to enjoy was a bit of "silliness". We were down-right silly, and it was totally worth the wait.
Two dates in one night? I don't even think I did that in college...
Sometimes all it takes is a new way of looking at things in order to turn a dud of a day into a fun night to remember.